Why it Matters →
Dear copington,
I love you! I miss you a lot. I hope your babies are doing well and that your girlfriend is A-1. I hope your father bought you all the food you could stand to eat. I hope you know how to get around the whole city of Copenhagen pretty much on a bike. And that you go sailing, or boating, with your girlfriend, in the sun. Summer is coming!
And so is gay marriage. I can’t wait. I think the Supreme Court will make it happen in just a few short years is what I think. I know this Supreme Court Sucks but also I just can’t imagine them upholding what is at best a separate-but-equal set of marriage laws, and at worst a separate-and-unequal legal situation for boys who like boys: In almost two-thirds of the states, LGBTQ Americans are constitutionally forbidden from chilling together 4 ever with benefits. Fuck that.
Not to mention the increasingly heated and violent rhetoric towards queer Americans. It seems like we’ve gone from 2005 to 1955 in seven short years. I want to be free and that means I have a responsibility to free others and act with love. Not to promote ignorance and division, violence and oppression.
Which brings me to our President. The effect of his support for civil rights, specifically gay marriage, can not be underemphasized. This is HUGE. Our U.S. President, okay with gay marriage! So that, Copington, is where you mischaracterize my response. I DO think it matters, very much so. As our president is so fond of quoting, “Let us realize the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.” (Leave it to the gays to bend it~~!)
But we must also remember the arc of a missile as it bends toward civilians, fired as it was by a boy with a joystick outside of Las Vegas, from a drone, sixty thousand feet over the mountains of Pakistan, Yemen, Somalia. Because where with George Bush we despised, hated even, a president who imprisoned and tortured human beings, now we cheer and talk of justice with a president who, too afraid to face the ugly politics of habeas corpus, murders those he is afraid of.
I have to say, I have been a little less (okay a lot less) into politics since I moved to Denmark. For one thing, I live in Denmark, for another, living in Denmark has left me a little bit jaded about American politics. I mean, what can I say about the country I was born in that doesn’t even want…



